October 15, 2010
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Romance
In a lot of long relationships, the woman tends to complain that the romance is gone. This is due to one or both of two reasons: that the woman gets easier or the man becomes more efficient.
In the beginning stages of a relationship, the woman is generally reluctant to sleep with a man she hasn’t gone on X amount of dates with. The man, then, wines and dines her, buys her flowers, in order to break that barrier as soon as possible. After X amount of dates, the woman won’t put be as hesitant to sleep with the man, and he won’t need to wine and dine her anymore.
Also, in the beginning stages of sleeping with each other, there tends to be an immense amount of foreplay. To be honest, it’s not for you, ladies. It’s so that man can figure out her buttons, where she’s sensitive, and whatnot. That’s why it’s taking so long. So after he’s figured out what gets her wet, he just targets those areas. She gets horny quicker, and the romance factor dissipates. After a while, he just wants to get it in.
Comments (15)
People miss the honeymoon phase!
It true in alot relationship but everyone of us need to go back to basis and spice things up =)
i think also, if you’ve been in a relationship long enough, the honeymoon phase goes away and you also get more comfortable with the person… hence less effort.
I don’t think it’s totally agrees that guy at the end understand and know what make there girls click.. Sometime its more two way… Guys can want more and lady just feel, come let get it over with.. I hear that a lot too..
What else happens after the kiss?
That’s why you lease, and not buy.
i think its because you know that person will love you no matter what you tend to slack off..because also at times they might keep on telling you…oh its ok, dont worry about it, im happy, until it actually boils over into a problem. thats why communication is important
So true ahaha I like this post!
i call it an investment.
and whats wrong with that?
nicely put, bluntly (chuckles)
the hunt is what makes the reward more satisfying.
Silly men. Whoever’s doing their long-term relationships like this isn’t doing it right.
If things get too bland in a relationship, I do something to kick-start it. Like – a trip to a secluded beach in Panama. 
I like the romance too much to let it go just because I know how to turn a girl on. And how about turning her on more, for longer periods of time? There’s no reason to stop looking for ways to take it further.
The “honeymoon phase” can last only so long on its own before real life demands take its toll. Assuming that people get into relationships with the intentions of spending their lives together, the phase takes some work on the part of all those involved. If the romance isn’t there anymore, why not communicate with your partner about it and figure out solutions to overcome it? If your partner doesn’t change, figure out if it’s something you can live with or move on. For some people, it’s the thrill of the chase while for others it might be lack of communication. The only definite factor is that the guy or guy can’t be romantic all the time because things happen in life; but romance has to come out once in a while.
I agree with : @kn1ghtviper21 - I think at the end it’s really about the communication… and it’s hard sometimes because it takes 2 to make it work. Personally I also feel the romance is also about the daily life, not just while having sex~ if one can feel the romance in daily life with the small actions, I am sure the couple’s sex is romantic too.