August 30, 2012
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A Letter to My Sister
My sister just started college at Notre Dame last week. I basically raised my two sisters, so naturally I’m a bit overprotective. Along with alcohol education, rape prevention, and school advice, looks like she’ll be needing some boy guidance as well. She’s inexperienced in that department, but being the adorable girl she is, she has a lot of guys chasing after her already. I mean, college is one of those places that make it so easy to meet people, and many guys don’t have the best intentions. I’ve been through all that. So here is my advice to her.
I know my sister reads my Xanga, so she’ll definitely read this. SO READ IT ALL, MICHELLE.- Don’t date a guy who doesn’t have similar interests with you. You’ll end up taking up all his interests trying to impress him. The thing about good relationships is that it should be effortless. Trying to impress your boyfriend or girlfriend means there’s something wrong there.
- Don’t date anyone who you’re not absolutely comfortable with. No, I’m not talking about being so comfortable that you guys fart in front of each other (but I mean, if that’s cool with you, then sure). I mean the type of comfortable that you can talk to him about whatever comes to mind. You should never be afraid that what you’re about to say might push him away or that you’re always walking on eggshells when you’re talking to him. Communication should be open and free, otherwise, you’ll be too afraid to bring up problems in the relationship, and he’ll get away with treating you like shit.
- Don’t date anyone who doesn’t have Facebook. I understand some people deactivate their Facebook in times of need or fasts or to see if they can do without it, but from my experience, people who don’t have Facebook always have something to hide. On top of that, if the guy doesn’t add you, but shows his interest in you, that definitely means he’s hiding something.
With all seriousness aside, when you have a bunch of guys chasing you, make them fight to the death Hunger Games style. Or just follow my motto:
Comments (18)
You were joking when you said “With all seriousness aside”, followed by that last bit of advice, right? OH SNAP
Oh, and add this, too – 4. Google the shit out of him. Some stuff isn’t always posted on Facebook.
this girl tried so hard, she thought “EDM” was a DJ.
Just tell her to avoid guys like me.
Another one on the loose? Is the world ready?
@coolmonkey - naw. Vietnamese girls need guys like you to make them have faith in men. you give that hope to our sex.
Remember one thing, Michelle… YOLO.Kidding. haha
surprisingly good advice! except the FB part–FB is just a terrible site!
@QuantumStorm - yes i was kidding. i mean, if i was a true golddigger, i wouldn’t have that shirt. it would scare all the sugar daddies away. @BaLob - BAHAH. i heard that happening to other guys too!@coolmonkey - best advice ever.@BenelliMan - idk what the hell this even means. viet girls need men to cater to them. the end. @fLiPgUy31O - i’ll kill you! don’t tell my sister any such thing!@asian7inch - only liars and ppl who need to hide stuff don’t have facebook.
@eatdrinkandbemaryy - I said I was kidding!
@fLiPgUy31O – yo Alex, we need to put this one in check. When our powers combine, we become….. Captain Gookapino!
@fLiPgUy31O - I like YOLFN. You Only Like Flip’s Nipples.
@QuantumStorm - I think he likes your nipples too. lol ;P
Good advice, and a bad ass t-shirt.
pretty damn good advice
Awwww…………. this was so sweet!=D
Ah, guidelines for guys… glad to see that you want what’s best for your sisters. I should write a few for when my sis goes to college!
Lmao @ that shirt. Good advices for your lil sis… though I disagree on the FB thing.