July 31, 2010
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Catty Bitches
Ever since the beginning of time, I’ve NEVER been able to befriend girls very well. NEVER EVER EVER. I feel like I have the affinity to be hated by girls or something.
At my OWN FIFTH BIRTHDAY PARTY (co-ed of course because you just invited everyone in your class), these girls ganged up on me and got all pissy at me because my dad let me win the play-doh contest. Hey, I made the best yellow play-doh snakes possible. Don’t hate.
In the third grade, there was this apparently exclusive club that every single girl in my grade was allowed to join except me.
Once, I was driving, and I was randomly flipped off and cursed out by a girl classmate of mine who I have never talked to nor talked about. I don’t even know her name. I just know she went to school with me.
When I first came to New York, I had a friend in the area, and he took me around the city. As we went around, he asked me, “Why do girls give you dirty looks everywhere we go?” Yeah, beats me.
As I was getting to know people in my cohort during welcome week, someone commented that this girl and me looked similar. I say, “Hahaha. No not really.” She says, “I do NOT look like HER.” HEY I’M NOT UGLY, BITCH. TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT.
Fall semester, I literally had no girlfriends, besides my roommate, but then again, I had very few friends in general. I guess I could blame my then-boyfriend.
I still hear about girls who I barely know talking shit about me behind my back.
Saleswomen are the MEANEST to me. I see them helping a man before me, being super duper polite, and here I am expecting the same treatment, being completely cheery, only to be given the rudest service ever.
Just now, some random girl I was playing OMGPOP with just started talking shit. Conversation went as follows (this isn’t edited in the slightest nor taken out of context):
Her: mary
Me: ?
Her: ur flat
Me: thanks…
[I win game]
Her: yay flat girll
Her: chink
Her: god chinks are weirdWHAT THE FUCK IS WITH THIS?!?!?!
Comments (17)
Females of the human kind are strange creatures. My daughter used to have a friend who’d been away 2 weeks, and couldn’t wait to see my daughter. When she went to the door, one of them smacked the other’s face without a word spoken, and they hated each other ( for a very brief time)
Ugh, I’m sorry you had to experience this
On behalf of all girls out there, I apologize. <3
… I don’t have many girlfriends either but I don’t think I’ve met anyone like that O_O Sorry that your experience with the female population isn’t pleasant.
I think a lot of it has to do with age. I experienced similar things when I was growing up. It stopped around the time when I started noticing people my age were generally engaged, married, married with children, or working on their first divorce.I chalk it up to insecurity, jealousy, and/or feeling threatened in some way.
yes, girls can be petty and bitchy but there are some cool ones out there…like me! =)I’ve met a lot of bitches in my life but I’ve also met some pretty cool ass girls who’s basically my crew now. We still hang out and go on vacations together and it’s great. So don’t get discourage by these bad seeds that you’re meeting. I promise you, you’ll meet some good ones!
I totally understand how you feel. Girls are catty, and will always be catty. With me, people befriend me and then they talk trash about me, whether it be to other people, on Facebook, or on their online blogs. Girls are just bullies, plain and simple.
women are getting a bad rep these days, and for good reason.
I don’t get it. I mean I know catty girls exist, but to meet them everywhere? Every time? Where on Earth do you live? Where I live, women coexist in a friendly manner. Those that don’t, I separate from them. Surely you must’ve met nice girls too right?
how would people describe you when they first meet you?
UGH i totally know what you’re talking about!!!i used to go to this hookah bar with my then-friend. this girl who worked there… NEVER did or say ANYTHING to her and was nothing but polite when i asked her for things… despised me. she’d ignore me, glare and give me dirty looks from across the room while making coffees… gave my friend water and made me pay for mine. so you know what? stole her tips from tables around us when she wasn’t looking. bitch.
-pat pat- Girls can be mean.
@YeahHer - haha, thank you!@juslitome - yes, of course i’ve met nice girls, but generally it’s been really difficult for me to make friends with them. @LillimNo9 - i’m usually very polite when i first meet people.
Oh my… the world is full of haters. o_O
Sorry for being a random commenter, but here goes:My number one guess is that those girls are jealous and way too overly competitive. Plain and simple. I know it’s an overrated and overused reason, but it’s true. I have a friend who is also like you – she is very attractive, petite, stylish, super pretty, polite to everyone, INTELLIGENT, OUTSPOKEN, CONFIDENCE (you know, instead of the annoying, whiny, look-at-me, low self-esteem), etc. etc. but girls, for some reason, just hate her. They hate her because she is basically perfect and because she’s hard-working and she’s intelligent and voices her opinion and she’s very level-headed. Like, c’mon, that’s not fair: brains AND beauty? Anyway, it does not make any sense at all, but I think that’s why those girls may not like you because you basically have it all together. If you ask me, that’s a stupid reason to hate someone. Girls, on the other hand, hate me because I look like crap. I will be honest: I am not the slightest bit attractive and I wear crap clothes and I do not follow society’s standard of what is feminine. Also, I have vitiligo. I was wary of my friend the first time I met her because she basically looked one of those girls who looked down upon other girls for not having well-groomed eyebrows and who wore mismatched clothes, etc. (trust me, the number of times girls have given me dirty looks for superficial reasons is more than I can count) but when we started to talk, I realized she wasn’t like that at all. So yeah, I also made wrong assumptions.
In the end, though, your true self with show through. Despite the fact that I do not fit in with most girls and have always felt like an outsider/freak, I have managed to really nice girls who accept me for who I am. I have no doubt that you will, too. 
poor loser
why do you post a picture of a view down your shirt if you aren’t asking for attention because you think you’re so cute. as for saleswomen, they profile your appearance, so if you look like a snotty teenager/young adult, they’ll help the man or whoever looks more mature first. so it isn’t just about being polite but of first impressions. other people aren’t necessarily jealous but they sense your arrogance even if you seem polite and don’t say anything mean to them, you are still thinking with a stuck up attitude when you admit to this- ”HEY I’M NOT UGLY, BITCH. TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT.”
Well that is probably the only drawback to being an attractive woman. The haters obviously think you are competition or are jealous you have what they don’t. You should be flattered.