September 8, 2010
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Confused
After tonight, I’ve been reflecting on the choice of guys I’ve decided that I liked. Most of them are attractive. The only ones that weren’t were just around long enough to grow on me, and I just get used to them. I push away any guy that I’m not immediately physically attracted to. I find it difficult to become attracted to just purely personality traits. I can be friends with most guys. I relate to guys well, converse with guys well, befriend guys well. I guess the personalities of guys just become less and less significant, and I then tend to place more weight on looks.
And for guys to grow on me is for a guy to give me constant romantic attention, because I feen for it. I become completely attracted to the attention and not necessarily the guy.
I become attracted to new guys quickly, not ones that have already been in my life. That’s why it’s so difficult to move out of the friendzone. I like the excitement of meeting someone new and getting to know them.
I’m confused with the guys I reject. I just rejected a really nice guy today. He does almost anything for me, spoils me to the core, but for some reason, I don’t want him. He’s been a friend too long, and I’ve gotten to know him too well. There’s no excitement. And I know all his flaws. And I feel we wouldn’t be compatible.
But why do I feel like I made the wrong decision?
Comments (6)
It’s because you’re the type of girl who likes passion and spontaneity in relationships, just like I do. The nice guys do come last when it comes to girls like us.
Nah, nice guys always lose anyway.
Here! Here! Us nice guys finish last.Well emotions and logic don’t necessarily agree. That seems to be the dilemma.
you admit you can’t get along with other girls and have mostly guy friends, and now you say you push away any guy you aren’t immediately attracted to.i would think this is a recipe for a disastrous love life
And that is why pick-up artists who study seduction — teach men how to act so that they have a certain effect on women. “Nice guys finish last” is a common theme; you’d think that the person who’d care for you would be the one most desirable but that isn’t the case.Silly women with their selfish — and unrealistic – romantic expectations. I don’t know about you but my heart is in my head.
it’s a case of you’re young and attractive and have plenty of guys .to pick from. so when guys go head-over heels for you and do whatever you want, it’s boring. it’s more exciting to have a challenge and a mysterious guy who you don’t know much about.i’m not saying this is bad, but your views will also change over time. have fun while you can =)